Punching above your weight dating

So I asked him, whether he thought it was time to broaden the category of his ‘physical type’?His response: “no, I know what I find attractive, by compromising on this I could be tempted to look outside of the marriage”.Ironically enough, when he reminisced about the women he had previously dated, he said that they were high maintenance and hard work.These women were able to get lots of attention, so if he was not giving it to them, they could easily find it elsewhere.My friend wasted no time in pointing out to me that he still had hope, despite the odds being against him.Undeterred, I continued to validate my point that in general like attracts like.What happens when you consistently do not get the results that you desire?

Firstly, the poor man may take some action to increase his status so he can afford the car.I then queried how he could conclude that he would not find a women sized similar to himself (or even a size 12/14) attractive?If he has physically & mentally filtered out women who fall into these categories, how could he be so sure without even trying?Today, my friend is still attractive but he has put on some weight and is ageing like nature intended.However, his desire to meet & marry a slim woman is no longer yielding the same results.

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